Having a Baby can be Stressful. . .
‘First Step For Fertility’ is a powerful way to both strengthen your relationship – and naturally support conception.
It helps couples in three important ways. First it provides an effective, reliable way for both you and your partner to relax. Second, it brings a new level of excitement to your bedroom. Finally, it introduces a special ritual that helps your relationship grow deeper and more satisfying as time goes by.
This process helps you and your partners bodies get in sync – to support getting pregnant naturally.
It bridges the gap between stress and the bedroom.
Most couples enjoy this special ritual so much, it becomes a permanent part of their lifestyle. Once you experience it, you’ll understand why.
It’s important to understand that ‘First Step For Fertility’ is not a replacement for your doctor.
If you are having problems getting pregnant, it’s essential to get guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. ‘First Step for Fertility’ addresses what to do in the bedroom. But there are many other factors your doctor may need to address.
If you’d like, we’ll be delighted to refer you to one of the leading natural fertility specialists, Dr. Aumatma Simmons MS, ND, FABNE.
She also offers a free app to help answer your questions. Dr. Simmons is a fertility specialist, best selling author and double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist & Doctor, with over 15 years in practice.
Make Making Babies Fun Again
Instead of being stressful – First Step For Fertility is natural and enjoyable. It is a ritual where each partner agrees to give the other a very special massage once a week.
This not only helps both of you relax, it brings intense passion back to your bedroom.
The program was developed by clinical sexologists, Drs Wendy and Steve McGough (DHS). It evolved from their own journey of trying to get pregnant.
You can learn more about their history here.
First Step for Fertility addresses the topic most relationship counselors avoid – what you actually do in the bedroom. So you both can relax, and let nature take it’s course
So what exactly is this ‘Ritual’?
It is a special extension of the “hi® 3-Step Method for Couples” – that also includes unique physical techniques couples do together with hi®.
Are you stressed? Chronic stress causes more harm than you may realize. Beyond making it more difficult to conceive, stress accelerates aging, and increases risk of many health challenges.
How would you feel knowing that once a week you had an amazing massage? A massage that totally relaxed you – and ‘reset’ your day? Where you are the complete center of attention. Plus – at the end, if you want – you receive a ‘happy ending’? The happy ending is optional, and totally up to you though.
How will your partner feel knowing they get this massage each week as well?
Odds are both of you will look forward to it.
Many times getting pregnant can seem more like a ‘stressful science experiment’ than making love. What feeling would you prefer your baby to be conceived from – Stress, or Love?
The hi® 3-Step method is an easy routine where you and your partner agree to give each other a 15-minute massage once a week.
With First Step for Fertility, you finish each session making love in a special way.
First the man uses hi® to take care of the women’s needs. This allows the man to later climax – with no pressure to perform. Then the woman climaxes again, often multiple times. With hi®, this process is quick and easy.
The only “scheduling” (like is done with traditional methods) is that you wait a few days between each session. This way you regularly make love throughout the fertile times of each month.
This process doesn’t replace your normal bedroom activities, it enhances them.
Couples find their libido increases significantly, because they are more relaxed, and tend to sleep better.
Most couples want to continue this ritual over the years, as they grow together. This process leaves a ‘twinkle’ in your eyes, that others notice.
Being a role model for a healthy relationship.
Having a clear attraction, and love, for each other also provides an important example for your future children. So when they grow up knowing their parents care for each other – they are more likely to find empowering relationships as well. Children learn from you by example. What you do together in private, behind closed doors – changes how you act around each other public.
Our culture has become fractured, with more than 50% of children being raised in divorced or single parent homes. So, this is more important that you may realize, for both your children and for our future society.
This simple, proven ritual comes from working with thousands of couples over the past 14 years.
Create a Relationship that Grows Stronger and More Satisfying Over Time
Beyond helping you relax – and enjoy the process of getting pregnant – the hi® 3-Step Method is a powerful way to keep passion alive.
Raising children is one of life’s most rewarding, and stressful jobs. From time to time it can put a great deal of strain on relationships.
This weekly ritual has been used by thousands of couples to help each other relax and deepen their connection.
It can heal a relationship that is stressed – or if your relationship is great, take it to an even higher level!
As adults, we mostly focus on caring for others. For most people it’s pretty rare to have experiences where we are completely cared for.
Because of this – at first – each partner tends to mainly look forward to receiving their own massage. For most, it is the highlight of their week.
But over time, as both partners learn more techniques – they begin to look forward to seeing how their partner responds. They really enjoy seeing their partner being happy and content.
Doing this over time, couples develop a feeling of love that in Sanskrit is called “Mudita”.
This experience is described in Tantra and other Asian intimate arts. However, English doesn’t have a direct translation. It’s the pleasure you feel when you see your partner is happy. This way you are expressing your affection for each other in a way that is much deeper than words. If you ever see an elderly couple that you can just feel their love for each other – that’s Mundita.
One couple described it this way:
“When your partner knows that you’re doing everything you can to try to care for them – they can get through just about anything. When you know your partner is also doing that for you – you feel the same way.”
How is hi® First Step for Fertility Unique?
First Step for Fertility is very different from any program you’ve tried before. To begin, it takes the stress out of trying to get pregnant.
Instead of having a scheduled time for trying to conceive, each of you have a weekly massage that ends with intimacy. This tends to increase both of your desire for even more intimacy.
It also helps you both relax on levels you probably haven’t experienced before. Beyond just massaging your muscles, the simple routine targets key nerve areas that activate your parasympathetic (relaxation) response.
hi® is a powerful sports massage system that is optimized for women’s pelvic massage.
It can give women intense experiences, even through their clothing, while also helping with women’s overall pelvic health.
It combines percussion and vibration in a patented way that stimulate multple areas simultaneously.
If men are having issues with stress based erectile dysfunction, hi® can generate the frequency and amplitude ranges studies have demonstrated can help induce erection.
No other solution combines sports massage, with pelvic health, and intimacy for both women and men.
By combining massage and intimacy you amplify your health and relaxation benefits with a weekly ritual that strengthens your relationship and helps increase your chances of conception – naturally.
From Tragedy to A Miracle
On a personal note, Wendy and Steve have been together for over 25 years and happily married for 22 years.
Like all couples, of course they’ve had their ups and downs. They tried for 6 years to get pregnant and finally saw a fertility specialist. After a year of grueling hormone treatments, they became pregnant.
But sadly Wendy was exposed to a multi antibiotic resistant infection. After becoming very sick, they had to do an emergency c-section a few months before the due date. Sadly their son Luke only lived a day.
(Luke William McGough)
Wendy then spent 2 years fighting for her life, but finally recovered. But they were told they could never become pregnant again due to the extensive damage.
Steve originally created hi® to try to help Wendy deal with tissue adhesion’s that came from her needing multiple surgeries.
The ‘side effect’ of pleasure was completely unexpected.
Then after using hi® daily to reduce pain from her adhesion’s – a miracle happened. Wendy began to have ‘odd’ symptoms that didn’t make sense.
After 24 weeks and 7 doctors visits to try to find out what was going on – they discovered they were pregnant with a daughter!
Their daughter Daniela is the biggest blessing of the whole process.
(Daniela & Steve)
During this process, they continued teaching, doing research, and running a high stress start up manufacturing businesses.
Through all this they’ve been able to keep things fun and exciting.
In a world of “theory” Wendy and Steve live what they teach, and make it a point to enjoy every moment.
Their goal is for you to have a relationship that you truly enjoy – and inspires others. Plus you set a wonderful example for what a solid relationship is for your future children.
(Steve, Daniela & Wendy)
Inspire A Lifelong Romance
Our goal is to help both of you live your lives to the fullest. Beyond just helping you relax – and supporting you having children naturally. We want you to enjoy the process, and your life together over the years.
The skills you learn in First Step for Fertility can be used throughout your relationship. One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is demonstrating a strong, loving relationship.
By itself, the ritual is a powerful way to stay connected. But that’s just the beginning. After learning the First Step for Fertility process, you’ll discover additional fun programs that both of you will LOVE. We understand that most couples are busy and have little free time.
Rather than attending classes or going to “therapy” together – what they really need is to spend more time together having fun. So instead of this being a traditional class, you learn these skills while having fun together on a date.
Each program is far more than just a ‘date’ though. While enjoying yourself, you both discover – and practice – essential skills proven to build amazing relationships.
This comes from our own experience working with couples, and other clinically proven techniques, such as the Gottman Couples Therapy method.
Both partners enjoy the process, and the results show up in a more deeply connected and pleasurable relationship.
Sharing the Message
Even before you get pregnant, odds are people will start noticing the natural glow you and your partner have.
Since this topic focuses around relaxation, health and natural conception – it is something most people are interested in learning about.
We have both an affiliate program, and a certified hi® Instructor program, where you can earn income while truly helping people.
Here your experience going through the journey of becoming pregnant becomes priceless information to couples who are still trying to conceive. So you’ll truly make a difference in the lives of others, and our next generation.
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